Midlife for Dummies...what a great read.

I was already feeling good today , but this made me realize how important it is to let go, GAL, move on, and detach...

I shared this with a friend who went through his own sitch four years ago and he said it described his W to a T during that time...his sitch lasted 8-9 months and they got back together...I wish we could all get that lucky...and he said he gained a better marriage for it.

Now that warmer weather is upon us, I just asked a work friend to help me sort out all the yard equipment and show me how to use it...H used to do all the yard work, so with spring right around the corner things should be fun to say the least.

So nothing really new to report...H has also gone dim/dark...no more texting me. I am okay for it though as it has been quite peaceful not being pulled into his drama...


BombOctober 2012-
OW 11/28/12 -H still denies
Separated 11/29/12
Own place 12/12/12
Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13
Oct 2013 - I knew I was done
Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life