i'm curious to know where you were when friend spoke to your wife about this and what did you say if you were present and what (if you did) comment about it later w W.
They spoke on the phone I think. I wasn't present. I just noticed W acting distanced and short again, so I asked her what was up. She told me about the conversation. I had no prior knowledge that they spoke. I reaasured her that I had nothing to do with their conversation. She felt I was stirring the pot, which was NOT. I also expressed to her that I felt it was BS that he even got involved or shared his feelings with her. She seemed somewhat accepting of that, but went into great length (AGAIN) about how done she is with our marriage. She sees nothing but the highway, and has no plans of turning back....same story she has been telling since day one. I am starting to believe her.
