Glad you're still posting, not enough people in the "recovery" phase post!
Originally Posted By: BC39
Saying that, I still struggle a lot. Not knowing what the future holds is something I have a hard time dealing with.
It seems pretty common for LBSs to go through this in piecing. How does the LBS ever trust that the WAS isn't going to leave again, or have an affair again? All I can say is live for today because you have no idea what tomorrow may bring. You could die on the drive home this evening, or your spouse could. Anything can happen. We can spend all our time worrying about it or we can just enjoy each day as a gift and let tomorrow worry about itself. I'm not saying we should go on wild spending sprees and party like there is no tomorrow, I'm just saying we all spend too much time worrying about things that may never happen
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We still haven't had a R talk since October.
Why is that? In piecing you should have very open channels of communication. I recommended RetroV to you previously, did you ever check into it? It gives you some truly amazing communication techniques, and it takes the fear out of communication.
