Originally Posted By: sandi2
What steps did you take the last time you were here?



A brief list-
-Stopped asking her about her whereabouts constantly as this bothered her
-stopped playing "20 questions" whenever she got home
-stopped talking about R constantly
-started dressing better
-I spent more time with friends and family, rather than sitting around he house
-validating nearly every conversation.. She even mentioned I was "Like yoda"
-acted as if I was fine whenever I was around her. Acted like I would be fine no matter the outcome.
-took a larger interest in politics and current events, something that interests her.


M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done