Maybe this is not spontaneous, as they are chosen behaviors, but I think they qualify?
Not IMO.
Btw, I would encourage you to book ahead for a room. I would think it would not help the tension between you and W if you don't have the comforts of a good hot bath and a big, soft bed at the end of a day of sight- seeing. Women just need it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
