Nice Labug! I would love to get an email like that. Ironically this happened to me last night which is why I was thinking about it. I was trying to talk to W while she was watching TV, then S12 came in to report that his bathtub drain was clogged. I said "That's from your sister's hair, we'll need to clean that out"

W said "What a stupid thing to say! Should we just shave her head bald?"

I said "I won't be spoken to that way" and left the room. I had the full on shame dump going and didn't understand why what I said was offensive -- it's just fact.

In any case, I will never get an apology for something like that so vicariously appreciated yours!

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015