Sorry wasn't clear, that was coming from my lawyer. H's lawyer called mine and said they want to try to settle this while H is here. He leaves in 2 days. I am not agreeing to any of that. My lawyer knows I want to settle this but I would rather go to court than agree to take nothing in child support and have to send my kids to England for 5 weeks in the summer. I said 2 weeks and I am not budging. I am the only one compromising. First I said no they couldn't go at all finally agreed to 2 weeks and that is it. I am not giving up one more week. I think he is confused as to who left his family and his job and his life for OW. Wasn't me...

Yeah he claims he can't find a job but seems to have unlimited funds for vacations. I am very interested to see what a judge would think of that. I am done I have made all of the compromising I am going to make. I told him if he was in FL he could see the kids whenever he wants and I fully intend to stand by that. I want them to have a relationship with their father but I am not comfortable sending 2 small boys out of the country without me.