Mainly, I feel that she made a big deal about telling me that she will be going out next Saturday with her girlfriend, and I'm strongly suspicious another guy will join them, which eats at me. But these friends are unreliable, and their plans might fall through. It did this past weekend.
So I am definitely Plan B because right now she is planning on being the 'single girl' with these friends.
Am I playing games? Maybe a little bit. At the heart of the matter, I don't want to seem needy and willing to accomodate her vicissitudes at the drop of a hat.
Does she value family time? Yes, I'm sure she does. The last 3 weekends we spent at least 1 day doing something. But she also values single time. She wants both.
