Sorry you're going through this. Have you considered MC? What about Retrouvaille? I think both could be a huge help to both of you, but especially your W. Good luck!
We tried a few sessions of MC around 4/2012. I struggled to open up during the sessions because she wasn't committed to the relationship. I felt that being too honest would jeopardize the hard work I was doing with DB. In the past she said MC was pointless because I wouldn't talk.
We were scheduled to go to Retrouvaille in November. W backed out the day before the weekend began.
I could try for Retrouvaille again, but I really doubt she'd go for it. Not to mention, I really don't know if I want to. I'm sick of being yanked around by her and don't want to spend my life wondering when the other shoe will drop.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done
