I am so frustrated with H right now. I realize now that divorce is where we are headed and I just want it to be over now. I am tired of living this limbo life. He clearly has moved on is on vacation now with his OW and her kids and has our kids there too. But he will not sign any papers, every time we come to some sort of agreement he will then ask for more. I am the one making all of the compromises and he is the one that left. Left me and left the kids and moved 3000 miles away. Left his job and everything for this OW.
Now he wants to me let the kids go to another country for 5 weeks in the summer, every other christmas break also so I wouldn't see them for Christmas and since he has no job can only give me $250 a month for 2 kids.... Wow that is not going to pay for anything is it... I am the one doing all of the compromising and he is doing none.. Although not sure why I am suprised been that the whole time. I am just so frustrated and annoyed with this. I started out not wanting the kids to go away at all and I said 2 weeks was good then he wanted 5. If I agree to that which I won't then what will he want? Nothing is ever enough with him. I think he forgets who left the kids, wasn't me.
I started out not wanting a divorce at all and now I can't even imagine having him back. OW can have him.
