I think over the next day I am going to start a new thread as this one is getting a little long and what I will do is start it with a recap. I will use that as a milestone to how far I have got to now.
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.