Lurking on this thread as there are so many similarity's I can relate to in my situation. Like a switch has been flicked and someone took over her. WAW or MLC? The EA. The hot and cold attitude toward us, you see a glimmer of hope then.. BAM you're the worst person on earth.

The hardest one was when she did up a parenting plan. Fortunately here in Canada the courts encourage a 50 50 split so she can never take my kids away unless I do something really stupid.

You seem to be on the right track, it is the hardest thing you will ever go through and the road is long. Luckily this forum has many people going through similar situations and is a great support network.

Try not to take what she says or does personally and continue to work on yourself. Greener pastures are ahead.


H 37
WAW 32
S 4 (Autistic)
S 2
Together 11 years
Married 6
Bombshell Dec 1 2012
House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.