Sorry to hear your W was being a butthead at the party! I don't know if that's a consistent pattern on her part, maybe she was just in a bad mood that day? What you described is certainly annoying, but that kind of stuff happens even in the best of marriages.
Originally Posted By: bblake1968
W says that even though we may forgive, it's doubtful we'd forget the events over the last few years.
Who says you're supposed to forget? There's a blurb in DR that specifically states that forgiving is NOT forgetting. Forgiving is letting go of all the hurt and pain something has caused and putting it behind you. But remembering is what keeps us from making the same mistakes again. Your W phrased it like not forgetting is going to prevent the R from moving forward, but that's not true at all. Not -forgiving- is what prevents progress.
