Originally Posted By: Grizz

25, laughing together is huge. One of the reasons she loved and liked me was my sense of humor. She thinks it is sexy if you are funny. I am not totally sure how it happened but we lost this recently. Well I say I don't know how it happened but actually I attribute it to the stress of life. Small kids, disliking work, busy schedules, we just lost the fun. This is tough to get back because she sees me in a poor light right now so things that I know she would have thought were funny previously she will not even crack a smile at now.


It feels the same way with my situation. We use to laugh all the time but she is resisting any effort to be happy in my presents.

Its hard to for her to see us in a different light when they dont want to do any activitys with us. Family fun activitys like going to the farmers market or the sugar camp. Just wholesome fun with the family. It's sad because the kids are missing out on the fun too.


H 37
WAW 32
S 4 (Autistic)
S 2
Together 11 years
Married 6
Bombshell Dec 1 2012
House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.