Just wanted to say as someone in the early stages of this whole thing I can attest to having wasted valuable time trying to decipher what my W was going through. As if putting a label on it would somehow make it go away. I think it doesn't matter if spouse is WAS, MLC or if I actually am The Prince of Darkness ruining everyone's life. The answer from the vets is the same: fix yourself
Me-36 W-31 M-7 S-5 BD Dec/12- things were wrong for awhile, head was in the sand
Seeking means: to have a goal Finding means: to be free, to be receptive, to have no goal
