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For me, it isn't as much about sharing or not sharing the middle stuff.

It is about how the middle stuff effects you. You, more than once, have talked about actually feeling ill thinking about it all.

There is a phrase...

let go, let God.

Sometimes, it is better, healthier, for us to actually do that.

To place some faith in the idea that things will work out just as they should. Without all of the middle stuff making us crazy.

Have you ever worried and worried about something, and in the end it was fine and then you ask yourself, what was I so worried about?

I went through that a lot. Until I just started trying to just go with things. Im not always successful, but it is something I work towards.


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox