Sorry Breakdown - just saw your reply on my last thread...
Yes, I am taking care of myself - it wasn't until this incident arose regarding our son "snogging the 12 year old male neighbour" at my W's house that this argument started.
My Sons well being will always come ahead of any marriage reconciliation or Divorce Busting.
W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs 8 year old Son ILYBINILWY - Dec 12 W moved out - Jan 2013 OM - Jan 2013 I file for D - May 2013