I will make a list of positive changes in him so far;

*Stays at home more
*Goes out more with his friends as apposed to sleeping all day
*calls me by my nickname/pet name more
*cooks dinner for me if he knows I will be at work more than 8 hours (often i pull 12's)
*suggests outings together once in a while (shopping for food, taking cat to vet, lunch)
*takes me to the doctor if I need to go
*takes an active interest in our two pet cats and plays with them

So I guess there is man small changes from the days of the D bomb but I wont lie, im tired as heck and equally as angry. Im trying not to give up though even though half of me wants to run screaming out the front door.