Ok so status update. Things have been surprisingly ok since the talk we had and I've been just trying to not focus on her as much and just keep moving on with my GAL and 180 stuff. last week though things went back to her old shenanigans of taking of one night and sleeping somewhere and refusing to say where she went.
Then she gets invited on a last minute trip to the coast with some acquaintances and I said ok and agreed to watch he four kids for the weekend. Not really a big deal for me I love having the kids to myself. I figure I'll deal with her behavior when he gets home.
She returned today and it was apparent she was off a bit. Long story short we talked tonight and she informed me she's still miserable, doesn't feel that she's in a real marriage shes just here and playing nice to get what she wants from me because she has nowhere to go and she hates herself for it. She still wants out. And refuses to talk about what he did wn she took off last week.
Now I listened to her but now I'm having these conflicting feelings. I'm hearing that she's miserable and I've learned how I've played a part in all this but I now I'm fixing things as best I can (new job, fixing finances, being my own man, etc) but I can see where her behavior is heading. I want to just up my head down and keep working on me but if she's f'ng around again I have to cut her loose. I don't have proof she did again but I can check her phone if I have too. Just getting so sick of all his BS.
