It would seem easy for me to say "go to have tea with your XW, but have no expectations," but are you emotionally there?
Heck, you are human and you still love this woman deeply, so can you really ask yourself to have no expectations, no hope given the circumstances? Give yourself a break and like others have said, if you are not ready, so be it.
What do YOU want? What would be best for YOU?
((((val))))
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D
