Is that true? That she won't fit? Is it important to you that she doesn't go. Will it break your serenity? Will it help or hurt your marriage?

Consider these questions before telling her no. Also, I'm not big on playing games. If she wants to spend time with you guys, it may seem like your plan B but that may not be the case.

What I'm trying to say is don't try reading her mind that she doesn't value the time with her family as much as with her friends.

This is also a great opportunity to show her your 180s.


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017