All you can do is give her space. There are people on here that were/are in your similar sitch. I've read others advise them to hold off on the divorce as long as need be. For example, give yourself some time to digest receiving the papers before signing them. Don't just open up the envelope and pull out the pen.
Take your time, this isn't a race.
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017
