He came by today to help move stuff before the carpet cleaners come tommorrow.

He hung around to chat with the girls and I. I did my own thing, no pressure for him to stay or not. He wanted to know what I was doing, how my work is, glad that I am enjoying life.

He shared with me what a mess his brother is in. His B is going through a full blown mid life crisis.

Weird that the divorce is happening this week.

Me: 49
H: 48
Daughters: 22,20,17 & 15
Moved out: 1/12
H filed for divorce: 9/12
OW discovery: 9/12
Finances settled: 2/13
Divorce final: 4/13