I understand this, but I have a question and it is not directed at you Bug, but a question in general:
How much of ourselves do we change? There are definitely some things that warrant changing, at least with myself, but when do those changes stop? What if we change everything we were and are still not happy with who we are ?
I understand about the boundary, but what if H never ever changes his approach? What would you do? Just hypothetical, I mean, we can change ourselves, but not necessarily others, right? Our change is sometimes the catalyst for change in our lives and for me, sometimes I forget everyone else doesn't change with me...
