Well I was over in WaitingForMagic's thread explaining the concept of expressing your reality in moderation, one of the elements of the boundaries stuff I learned, and I realized I should listen to myself. It clicked what Accuray was saying the other day about how I am too forceful when I disagree, which I disagreed with, ha.
I don't know if I am or am not, but the point is to learn to express yourself moderately in relationships with others. And I can at least think about that more and see how much of it fits.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
