Do what works for you Ad. If this process moves you ahead then it works. Only you really know if its useful or indulgent. Could it be both? Of course it could. Can it shift back & forth because you're human? yep.
We never please everyone. And I would guess that if that suggestion is heard, it is meant to help and see if maybe you are overthinking things. Be aware of it and decide for yourself.
I think you're making a great choice on the solo trip and meeting up. But that's coming from a fellow lover of road trips!
Me:45, W:45 S:16 D:13 M:22, T:25 Bomb: July 2010 Putting finances in order for "D" Continue to live in same home-separate rooms
