It was the contrast between his w's comments ("so not attracted to him" etc)
with how things progessed and changed IN HER.
SP --if your w says "x" today, it does not make it true.
And even if she believes it, it does not make it true.
And even if it is "true", it can and will change...in time.
Wrap your brain around that my friend...look at how often YOUR emotions shift and jump...
now imagine wondering if she'll revert to her old ways, doing and saying the very things she said/did that made you leave in the first place. She fears you will revert to your old ways.
This is not complicated... you have to show consistent change over enough time to get her to believe in those changes.
Period.
I think dating will do the opposite.
But there's no harm in a LITTLE mystery.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
