There is no difference for YOU between WAS or MLC. The difference for a WAS is that they have been telling you for years to blah, blah and got fed up waiting for you to make changes and went and found some one else.
An Affair.
VS MLC an affair may be part of the symptoms.
And people do describe their spouses as MLC WAS.
And yes their crisis triggers one in us. So we must lead the way out of our own crisis.
And in the process we will lead them out of their.
