she took money you told her she could take. She only took "her share" and said nothing...well,
So what? You pretty much gave her permission. It's not that I disagree with Bond, but I think you set her and you up for this.
So you think b/c the old you would have gone bonkers, maybe in a passive aggressive way or maybe in a big overt way (which is probably true AND is probably why she did not tell you)
that NOW saying nothing will prove;....what?
1) that you don't know yet
2) that you are scheming...
3) that you are too weak and fearful to do anything. OR you could maturely and calmly COMMUNICATE with her about what you did with the money and why; ie you took your share and put it somewhere the court will be able to see...
which would prove
that you are capable of handling a tough situation without losing your temper or
behaving in a passive aggressive way. That you can firmly create a boundary and enforce it without anger.
It would also protect you from her taking more.
But then recently you said it wasn't much to begin with...which makes me go in circles bc now you are essentially admitting you DID overreact...
is that a pattern?
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