Originally Posted By: Intact
Haven't initiated contact with my W for 3 weeks now but nothing really seems to be changing - it doesn't seem to have had any effect. Is this long enough to judge it on? Should I start mixing it up a little or just continue with the route I'm on?


Originally Posted By: Intact
So here I am back at square 1 - but her inability to see the damage and pain this causes our son astounds me.


Originally Posted By: Intact
I just feel exhausted from it, meanwhile my W just wanders off to OM like nothing is wrong. I'm a little worried about her mental state at the moment too.


Intact, do you see a pattern?

Do you think you are taking care of you first?

If you were already D'd, how would you want yourself to behave? What would you be doing differently?


M:44 W:42
M:15
S:19, D:16, S:14, D:12, S:6
BD: 2/14/11
D Final: 6/25/13