Nothing is bad other than the situation. You do need to refrain from pursuing her however. When you pursue her, she runs. The more you pursue, the farther she runs.

If she wants 15 feet of space, give her 20. That allows her to step back in 5, and that's the direction you want her to head.


Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015