Thanks miz! I really don't have ideas for a recharge evening. All my family and friends are married with kids and spend time with them. Single friends/acquaintances do the bar scene, which, if I didn't before, I truly hate now. I'll keep working on a plan just for me. I have several work related trips coming up in the next month. That'll give me a chance to get away. Coworkers are good, solid people.
Thank you again for the advice.
M - 42 W- 37 S's - 9,6 M-12 T-14 FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011 ILYBNILWY - march '12 FIL - died jan '13 W Moved out week later