I agree Mach - I have kept a journal since BD and everything is dated etc.

I think counselling for him would be a good idea.

Nothing is more important to me than my Son (including our marriage) I just wish she could see the pain this is causing him.

Thank you for the advice.

W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs
8 year old Son
ILYBINILWY - Dec 12
W moved out - Jan 2013
OM - Jan 2013
I file for D - May 2013