Help & Advice needed please Thread 2

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Back to square 1 now!!!!

My S can home from school sobbing - when I eventually got him to talk too me he told me that whilst he had been with his Mother - the boy next door (4 years older) had made him "snog" him. Twice.

I quickly rang my Wife and she came over whilst MIL took S away for a few minutes. I had every intention of staying cool - until she said "I have to go now as I'm going to OM's house tonight" I was furious and told her that she was ruining our Son, didn't keep an eye on him and that she was an "unfit mother" - obviously not great DBing here but my emotions over the welfare of my Son massively got the better of me.

So here I am back at square 1 - but her inability to see the damage and pain this causes our son astounds me.