I agree. Just enjoy the kiss. My W messes with my head too. She will stay down stairs for hours while I get the kids to sleep. I will then go to sleep. She then comes to bed and wants to ML. Then treats me like a roommate from then on. I have no idea where she stands. But I am not going to ask either.
Grizz, I joked this week with my wife that the "sex was good" -- she must have been in good humor since she said that at least I liked that.
More seriously, I just read on another thread AS description of the cold/hot or pursuer/distancer that I get fromn my W.
