If they lived with ea they would realize reality follows you anywhere and there is a reality that [censored] there as well. My H knows her life [censored] but he gets to walk away and come to my home filled with comfort, and when this [censored] go back to her house until it gets real and so on....!
I keep getting...I have been talking to her less so it is dyeing down or she's so ugly, you are far prettier and better than her, our home is better, your an angel compared to the devil I chose to talk to.
I have gone NC (very hard while he's here) I answered the two words he's uttered all weekend politely, I take over the living room if I chose to use the tv and act as if. I'm going to try to let him ride out his MLC and figure out his R he's going to have or not have and at the same time make sure I know what I want and work on that.
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!