I did this to shake things up. It has been stagnant for so long.
OK, well normally confrontation isn't recommended because it seems to NEVER go the way the LBS wants (and it doesn't sound like it did for you either). But always follow the advice of your DB coach.
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It's been about her for the past year and a half and I have been on edge and scared w what would come out of her mouth.
Detaching and GALing remove the focus from her and put it on you. It removes the fear from the situation. It takes you off of her emotional roller coaster.
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I am also planning a weekend trip w our son and not including her. This to show her I can do things w out her and have fun.
Don't do it to show her anything, do it because you want to spend the time having fun with your S. I hope that you do want to take trips with your son and enjoy your time together, remember that your S is hurting in this and he needs as much love and reassurance as you can give him.
