Boundaries would help you with that. They don't have to be sky high and flash with neon.
But it seems to me that you could use some space from W and some downtime for you. Are you doing anything for you? I know you do things ALL THE TIME with and for your kids and that is TERRIFIC!!!
But I think YOU need to recharge. What can you think of? Are there friends or family you could have an evening with?
Take care of yourself MtnMn, or soon you won't be able to take care of anyone else
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.