Thanks Mach this is a good point. It just feels like since I have stopped initiating contact it has been easier for her to back away. I get worried because MWD says don't be afraid to change directions if things aren't working - I guess I'm wondering what is sufficient time to know if something is working or not?
You posted this on 3-20
Originally Posted By: Intact 3-20-2013
Well, my WAW is being very nice too me - which is strange. She even had a coffee with me yesterday. I have greatly detached so either she now thinks I've moved on so it's safe to be friends or the dynamics of DB are really working; as I pull away she inches closer... We'll see...
So which is it ?
It's working, of it isn't ???
Just because change isn't in your face , doesn't mean it isn't happening...
