Oh yeah, totally, set boundary feel bad erase. If you restrained yourself good job. The only apology needed in that situation would have been from H. And he didn't do a malicious thing just a clueless one, and you clued him in.
Pat yourself on the back with your phantom appendage, it can reach better.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.