Hey Val, I haven't been active on your posts, but have read yours and am thankful for the wisdom and insight
I just echo what the others say, do what is best for Val at this time. Ask yourself, no matter what I do, can I handle the repercussions in my life right now?
I like KD's pressing appointment idea...actually make an appointment to do something if you go. I often use this as a device when meeting H. I make an appointment for whatever an hour and a half after meeting time....doctor, hair, gym, whatever.
