This is my main dilemma of trying to detach in a helpful way. The last couple of weeks I have felt my positivity improving, because my focus has been on my own self improvement. But my communication skills were a major problem in our R. So now I don't want to avoid talking to her when it occurs without my prodding. The only problem is it have led to arguments sometimes and that I definitely want to avoid. Also that she has perceived some of the distance as me being cold. So after that comment have been working on staying upbeat, smilmg a lot etc. Just not sure where the path is sometimes.


Me-36 W-31
M-7
S-5
BD Dec/12- things were wrong for awhile, head was in the sand

Seeking means: to have a goal
Finding means: to be free, to be receptive, to have no goal