Running out of steam

[mrtwopointfour]

Thanks IO

Here are some quick answers. At work at the moment, but the excitement of being able to post means I want to get going!

I sense you are avoiding any talk about single parenting and separation with W

Yes you are correct. I want to talk about it, but by doing so feel like I am just giving her the 'green light'.

GAL...now. What are you doing? I want you to post a list

• Going to the Gym
• Meeting friends for drinks
• Looking into new hobbies and taking up old ones
• Taking pride in my appearance. Taking chances with appearance that I never had confidence to do before
• Going off by myself to coffee shops to read
• Taking kids out by myself

If your wife looks great...tell her. "Say, "you look great today..." But leave it at that and go on

I've tried this. And I just get a 'I don't want to hear it' I think its because I never really said it before, and now for W its too late and possibly sounds false. I will continue once or twice a week max though.