I dont! Not to her. That would be stupid. I get that she is fighting for her well being in any way she can. I also see how that fighting impacts so many people around her. Oh! Shes wrong... But its up to her to figure things out.
"You are D'd so she has a right to do whatever she wants to."
Agree! But to a certain extent reguarding the kids well being.
"You're not letting go. That's what's causing your resentment and anger."
You have a point. . Problem is theres new stuff popping up all the time. I worry for my kids. Letting go is difficult when you are constantly presented with change.
" She doesn't need to tell you how she's feeling or what she's doing any more."
She doesnt!
"By acting angry and resentful it could be one of the reasons why she's stayed away."
You have a good point here. But I dont show her any emotions. She is the one projecting and spewing anger at me. She is the one calling and crying on the phone somethimes. So its not like she stays away. Shes on to OM2 and still searching for whatever she is lost. We have NC bc I cant cope with her crazy. She on the other hand trusts me 100%. Her words. She turns to me bc she does trust me. She wants parts of me still and I help out when I can. I dont think I made her run.
"that you're not living YOUR life and enriching your children's lives. If you want them to not follow the same mistakes as your W, you have to counteract how they see her acting."
This is were your wrong. I do agree with you though. The children are the most important for me. I spend all my time and money to counteract her behaviour. Even ex thinks im the greatest father in the world. Her words.
I do listen to advice. But all advice is based on what I write and writing leaves alot of information out. Im just trying to do the right thing. To make decisions along the way that I wont regret in the future.
