Thanks for the replies.

Mrbond, yes I have read them and am re-reading DR. I assumed that I got it mixed up just good the hear someone not in my R say it. I am working on staying the course. Hard not to feel confused or conflicted when your W says so many different things. And, well, it's my W so I want to believe what she says.

ForeverYoung, thanks and I have been working on me. Just hit a bit of am emotional wall this last week before the S happens.


Me-36 W-31
M-7
S-5
BD Dec/12- things were wrong for awhile, head was in the sand

Seeking means: to have a goal
Finding means: to be free, to be receptive, to have no goal