No reaction, that is, she did not move away or anything like that. I have made it a point to move more confidently into her personal space now also, project physical confidence.
Point taken on journaling - thx.
Okay - on home, I want to keep it for at least 1 more year. I think staying here gives me an edge in reconciliation, maybe, and continuity for all. She can still move out.
On the other hand, what I want and reality are not always the same, so I will call the realtor and get the scoop on whether doing the facade is worth it or not.
What do you think of the 10 day trip compromise? Advantage - she feels like she has control (she used to complain that I did all the vacation arranging) and she will travel with us, without weird who gets the kids on what day stuff.
DB coaching in 1:45 - any suggestions?
Thanks,
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
