I think you're getting the advice mixed up. You read DB/DR correct? Did you read the whole book and take notes?

She probably wanted your attention before, but now she doesn't want it. You can be around her and be friendly, just don't overdo the interactions.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER