So I have been reading through a lot of threads on this board the last day or so. Confused about some things now. Was reading about going dark in he mlc section and it gave me some food for thought. As my sitch has progressed I have focused on stopping pursuit. But one of my W big complaints was how I was emotionally unavailable. She has said a couple of times in last few weeks how she is expecting fireworks of change/ expecting too much. Am I leaving her alone too much? I haven't been trying to avoid her totally just to not initiate calling/texting or any deep conversations. Is it possible that my space giving is having an adverse effect? Or is she just spewing?
Me-36 W-31 M-7 S-5 BD Dec/12- things were wrong for awhile, head was in the sand
Seeking means: to have a goal Finding means: to be free, to be receptive, to have no goal
