Talked with my DB coach last week. I struggle with how to interact with my xw in a friendly, engaging way. She is very guarded toward me. My response is to not try to prolong any interaction, but to keep it short and to the point. However, this is my only opportunity to show that I can be caring and have empathy. I need to work on this, without applying pressure to her.
We meet each Sunday to exchange our son. This week, she was very avoidant. wouldn't make eye contact and Tried to end the interaction immediately. I need ed to discuss Easter plans, so we worked out those details. I told her she was welcome to join us for the egg hunt and brunch we typically have. She declined. These interactions had been getting more friendly, so that was a frustrating step backwards.
Spring break
H: 38 xW: 38 M: 16 T: 18 S: 9 BD: 2/2012 W moved out 4/2012 D: 11/2012