Is she still taking Zoloft or not? I had asked you why the doctor gave her refills if he was concerned about her "manic" reaction, but I didn't see you answer.
You told me you had read my story, so you know I was very depressed for a long time when I engaged in an EA. The A's I've known about did not happen b/c of complete satisfaction in life of the WAS. However, that seems little comfort to the LBS. So, I'm not sure what you mean by helping you to make sense of it. What's to make sense? She's depressed! You pretty much thrashed it out early on in your thread.
How are you coming on some of those issues you were going to improve? Since we hadn't heard as much from you the past few days, I thought maybe you were GAL.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!